Created For: Gatz, Jennifer
Student ID: 25khymen

Individual Essay Grading For: 22-23 SHS Assertiveness Post-Test
Question/AnswerPoints
Essay:  Write a 3-part assertive statement to a teacher who falsely accused you of turning in your homework late.
Student Answer:  Firstly, I would like to assert that I did not turn in my homework late. I submitted my homework assignment on the due date, which was Wednesday. Secondly, I would like to request that you review your records to verify that my assignment was indeed submitted on time. I am confident that you will find that my assignment was submitted on the due date as per the instructions. Finally, I would appreciate it if you could provide me with an opportunity to discuss any concerns you may have about my homework submission. I am always willing to clarify any misunderstandings and ensure that my work meets the expectations set forth by the class requirements.
Essay:  Write a 3-part assertive statement to a friend who keeps making plans with you and then cancelling at the last minute.
Student Answer:  Firstly, I want to express that I value our friendship and enjoy spending time with you. However, I need to assert that I find it frustrating and disrespectful when you make plans with me and then cancel at the last minute repeatedly. Secondly, I want to ask you to please respect my time and commitment by only making plans with me when you are sure you can follow through. If you need to cancel or reschedule, I would appreciate it if you can let me know as soon as possible to avoid any inconvenience. Finally, I would like to suggest that we work together to find a solution that works for both of us, such as making plans further in advance or committing to specific dates and times that work for both of our schedules. This will allow us to spend quality time together and strengthen our friendship without causing any unnecessary stress or frustration.
Essay:  When you choose to be assertive, you won't always get everything you want. With that in mind, why should you still choose to communicate assertively? Provide two reasons.
Student Answer:  It helps to establish clear boundaries and expectations: When you communicate assertively, you are expressing your thoughts, feelings, and needs in a clear and direct way. This can help to establish clear boundaries and expectations in your relationships, whether it's with friends, family members, coworkers, or others. By communicating your needs assertively, you can set clear limits on what you are willing and able to do, and others will know what they can expect from you. It promotes mutual respect and understanding: Assertive communication is about expressing yourself in a way that is respectful to yourself and others. It involves listening actively and acknowledging the other person's point of view, while also communicating your own needs and feelings. When you communicate assertively, you are promoting mutual respect and understanding, which can help to build stronger relationships based on trust, honesty, and open communication. Even if you don't always get everything you want, assertive communication can help to create a positive and respectful dynamic in your interactions with others.