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Essay: Write a 3-part assertive statement to a teacher who falsely accused you of turning in your homework late. Student Answer: On the contrary, I believe I turned it in the day it was due, although I understand that there are many papers to grade and do not mind some points off. |
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Essay: Write a 3-part assertive statement to a friend who keeps making plans with you and then cancelling at the last minute. Student Answer: I feel as if whenever we make plans something comes up, this saddens me and I’ve been meaning to ask if there is something yet to be discussed surrounding our friendship. Also this isn’t me trying to accuse you of avoiding me or anything, genuinely wondering, also if it is personal business you’d rather not discuss, totally understand. Just wish to put this out there so we can take steps to discuss a matter that has been bothering me a bit. |
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Essay: When you choose to be assertive, you won't always get everything you want. With that in mind, why should you still choose to communicate assertively? Provide two reasons. Student Answer: It does not matter if you get what you wished out of being assertive in a conversation, it’s the matter of getting your thoughts out there and heard. In the past I had trouble speaking up for my needs, ever since I’ve come to this school I’ve felt like I can speak for myself. Even if what I want out of a conversation/interaction isn’t always expected, it’s better than staying quiet and “toughing it out.” Additionally advocating for yourself helps immensely in adulthood or a work environment. These are basic life skills, how are you ever to thrive when you don’t have the means of communication in a world that depends so much on it. |
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